Using your home equity to help family
Using a home equity release loan to support your children with a deposit on their first home is a great way to transfer wealth to the next generation and help your children when it matters most. A home equity release loan can also be used to help with private education expenses for children and grandchildren, ensuring you can provide significant benefits to your family.



What are the benefits?
Help your children get on the property ladder sooner
Inviva offers an extensive range of education, tools and templates that can help you set up the Bank of Mum and Dad for success. Want to know how much help they may need and the potential financial benefits? Try our free Parents and Children calculator.
Contribute to your grandchildren’s future
Access the funds as and when needed
Peace of mind knowing you have helped your children when it matters
However, while using a home equity release loan to help your family offers many benefits, it’s crucial to carefully consider your own long-term financial goals, including the potential impact on the estate that you will leave to your family. We recommend discussing this with your family so everyone understands the potential impacts.
Meet Doug and Susan*
Doug and Susan were lucky enough to own their family home in Ivanhoe, Victoria, valued at $2.3 million, along with an investment property in inner-city Melbourne, valued at $1.2 million. For Doug and Susan, it just made sense to access some of this wealth now rather than waiting to pass it on to their children and grandchildren through inheritance.
James and his partner required $120,000 to top up their own savings for their first home deposit. Additionally, Doug and Susan wished to support their grandchildren’s education by providing an income payment of $2,000 a month for each grandchild for the next five years. They decided to leverage the equity in their family home to fulfil these financial goals.

How Inviva helped
By taking out a home equity loan for family, Doug and Susan were able to gift James and his partner $120,000 for their home deposit. This support enabled James and his partner to enter the property market, securing a favourable mortgage and reducing their financial stress. They documented the gift in writing to protect James in the event he and his partner separated in the future.
While they were doing this, Doug and Susan set up an income stream of $4,000 per month for five years to assist with their grandchildren’s private education. This consistent financial support ensured that their grandchildren could access better-quality education, hopefully enhancing their future prospects.
The decision to use a reverse mortgage brought significant emotional and financial benefits to Doug and Susan’s family. James and his partner achieved their dream of homeownership, and Doug and Susan had the satisfaction of knowing they were investing in their grandchildren’s education and future.
This financial arrangement also allowed Doug and Susan to maintain their lifestyle in Ivanhoe, retain ownership of their properties and provide financial support to their family without compromising their own financial security.
Why choose Inviva?
- Expertise & support — Our team has years of experience and offers personalised support
- Transparent costs — No hidden fees, and you know all costs upfront
- Flexible options — Choose how you access the funds — as a lump sum, regular income payment or a line of credit, and enjoy the flexibility to repay early with no early repayment fees
- Quick access — Fast approval and disbursement mean you get funds when you need them

Frequently Asked Questions
A family reverse mortgage is a loan that lets you use some of the value in your home to help your children or grandchildren financially while you continue living in your own home. You still own your home, and you do not need to make regular repayments. Instead, interest is added to the loan balance over time, and the loan is usually repaid when the property is sold, you move out permanently or your estate settles the balance.
You can choose how to access the money, such as taking a lump sum, receiving a regular income payment or using a line of credit that you draw on only when needed. This flexibility can make it easier to support family members with a home deposit, education costs or other expenses.
Yes. A family reverse mortgage has a few key eligibility requirements, including:
- Being aged 55 or over
- Owning the property that will be used as security with little to no debt against it
- You must be an Australian citizen or permanent resident, including NZ citizens with a Special Category Visa
- No proof of income required
Yes. It is important to understand how using home equity may affect your long-term plans. Key considerations include:
- How the loan will reduce the amount of equity you retain in your home
- The impact this may have on what you plan to leave to your family in the future
- How interest added to the loan balance over time can increase the amount owed
- The importance of discussing expectations with family to avoid misunderstandings
- The need to consider your own future financial needs and changing circumstances
Independent legal and financial advice can help you understand these implications before deciding whether this option is right for you.
Yes. You can use a family-funded reverse mortgage to help your children or grandchildren with a range of costs, such as contributing to a home deposit, covering education expenses or assisting with other major life events. You continue to own your home, and the funds can be accessed in the way that suits your situation.
If you are looking for information on using home equity to support aged care, we also have guidance available.
A family reverse mortgage can give you flexibility in how you manage your finances in retirement. You are not required to make regular repayments, which can help preserve your cash flow. You can also choose to use part of the loan for your own needs, such as covering day-to-day living costs, consolidating debts, travelling to see family or completing minor home improvements that help you remain in your home safely and comfortably. Voluntary repayments can be made at any time if you wish to reduce the loan balance.
The loan, including interest, is usually repaid when the property is sold or when the last borrower permanently leaves the home. You may also choose to repay the loan earlier if that suits your circumstances.
Inviva home equity release loans come with a no-negative-equity guarantee. This means you will never owe more than the value of your mortgaged property, provided you continue to meet your obligations under the loan, which are set out in your loan agreement.